MJ Shaar

Kindness: The Magic Is in the Margins

How You All Led Me to Kindness

I started fresh out of grad school with a master’s in applied positive psychology, determined to help people lead better, healthier lives. I developed a model that used incremental changes in biochemistry to make progress easier across sleep, food, mood, and exercise. At least, that was the plan.

But over the years, I kept hearing the same obstacles: “MJ, I’ve tried all the tips in your book, and I still can’t sleep at night.” “MJ, I know I should exercise, but I hate to sweat!” “Between soccer practice, homework, and ballet class, I just don’t have time to cook at home!”

But in a decade of wellness work, I had yet to hear anyone say: “MJ, I’ve tried everything, and I’m still the same grumpy guy I was before!”

That’s when it hit me—mood is the easiest entry point to healthier living. And research shows that nothing lifts mood higher or longer than kindness. So I started digging deeper. The more I read, the more fascinated I became with how much kindness does for our physical health, our relationships, our teams, and our organizations—not to mention our souls.

I was floored, I was sold, and now I can’t wait to show you all that kindness can do for your organization!

Trusted By

(among others!)

 

American Institute for Preventive Medicine – Wellcoaches – Health Enhancement Research Organization (HERO) – Royal College of Nursing – Mentor Coach – University of Pennsylvania – Bellin Health – Art & Science of Health Promotion – Life Habits Podcast – Dairy Farmers of America – Simply Well – Syngenta – Wellness Council of Wisconsin – Carolina Star Safety – Hitotsubashi University – Vermont Department of Health

 

What People are Saying

“Highest Rated Speaker”

“MJ Shaar is one of the most popular and highest rated speakers we have ever had… She has great insight into the process of health behavior change, but equally important, she is such a delightful human being. She exudes warmth, kindness, and a sense of caring. I highly recommend her.”

– Michael O’Donnell, PhD, MBS, MPH, Program Chair, Art and Science of Health Promotion, Editor in Chief, American Journal of Health Promotion

“Her Content Seduced Everyone”

“MJ’s presentation was remarkable on so many levels. Her delivery and charisma enlivened the conversations and got us all on board. Her highly applicable content and how far it can go seduced everyone, myself included. Her kind heart, bright spirit and full dedication make her a collaborator like no other.”

– Charles Martin Krumm, PhD, President of the French Association of Positive Psychology, Author, Speaker, Professor and Researcher

“MJ Hits It Out of the Park”

“MJ hits it out of the park with how interactive, how alive, and how fun the presentation is. All while conveying seriously useful concepts.”

Senia Maymin, PhD, MAPP, Coach to CXOs and Inducted in the Happiness Hall of Fame

“MJ has great style and grace”

“MJ has great style and grace. She draws our hearts while getting us thinking. I always love her presentations!”

– Judd Allen, PhD, President, Human Resources Institute

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Kindness-Centered Keynotes

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Program Curation & Kindness Integration Consulting

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